Why We Love the Way We Do

The truth is, so much of how we love today started in childhood.

Were we comforted?

Ignored? Smothered?

Left to figure things out alone?

Those little moments became the blueprint for how we show up in love as adults. ❤️

But here’s the beautiful part:

We’re not stuck with those old patterns.

We can learn to love in healthier, wholehearted ways:

✨ Practice secure connection. Be open, honest, and consistent in your relationships.

✨ Honour boundaries. Saying “no” is an act of love for yourself and others.

✨ Heal your inner child. Give yourself the comfort you once longed for.

✨ Communicate with kindness. Share your needs without fear or blame.

✨ Choose love over fear. Don’t let old wounds decide your present or future.

💭 We all carry stories from childhood—but we also carry the power to rewrite them.

Healing turns survival patterns into love that feels safe, strong, and true.

👉 So tell me… what’s one loving thing you’re choosing to practice in your relationships right now?

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