Other people’s feelings?

Have you always been worried about other people’s feelings rather than your own?

Have you continually tried to make things right for everyone else, regardless of what you want?

Have you viewed yourself as incapable and unimportant because you can’t make things right for everyone else?

Many children who come from abusive backgrounds seem to always want to make things right for everyone.

Their inner core has been so painfully violated that they want peace at all costs.

They walk around in fear and trembling, hoping they will never be the focal point of anyone’s verbal or physical disapproval.

A child’s identity evolves around family members.

In an abused child’s pure intent to make things right for everyone around him as he is growing up, he finds himself taking care of others at the expense of his own feeling and needs.

Consequently, the child has no identity of his own.

From then and there, co-dependency is borne.

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Co-dependency is a toxic kind of relationship where there is a severe imbalance of power.

One is too giving to the person who consciously or unconsciously takes advantage.

Because a co-dependent person finds no happiness or satisfaction outside of making things right for others, for most, co-dependent individuals end up being in a relationship with a narcissistic kind of a partner.

Codependency is a circular relationship in which one person needs the other person, who in turn, needs to be needed. The codependent person, known as ‘the giver,’ feels worthless unless they are needed by — and making sacrifices for — the enabler, otherwise known as ‘the taker.'

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Are you in a co-dependent relationship?

Are you tired of being in a relationship where you always walk on eggshells?

Are you feeling sorry for yourself for always feeling sorry for the person who always ends up hurting you?

Dust off mate.

Clean up.

And know that your kindness deserves the best recipient.

And know that you deserve to be just being yourself.

Let’s chat!

Let’s work together and let us identify your relationship patterns.

Let me walk you back to your aligned self.

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