Awareness loosens the grip. Compassion completes the healing.
- Nowena Piispa
- Dec 30, 2025
- 2 min read
Trigger warning: This post contains reflections on addiction, alcohol, and habitual behaviours.
Please read with care and only if it feels supportive for you today.
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When someone switches from alcoholic drinks to the non-alcoholic version of the same brand, the chemical alcohol may be gone, but the mental and emotional pattern can still be active.
Why?

Because addiction is rarely just about the substance.
It’s about:
🍷 the ritual (opening a bottle, pouring a glass),
🥃 the identity (“this is my drink”),
🍸 the emotional regulation (relaxing, numbing, rewarding), and
🍺 the habit loop stored in the brain.
So even if there’s zero alcohol, the mind is still rehearsing the same behaviour:
“This is how I unwind.”
“This is how I cope.”
“This is part of who I am.”
In that sense, the attachment hasn’t fully dissolved—it’s just changed form.
This is why many addiction models say:
👉 People aren’t addicted to alcohol itself as much as they’re attached to the relationship with drinking.
The substance is the vehicle.
The habit, meaning, and emotional payoff are the hook. 🪝
That doesn’t mean non-alcoholic drinks are “wrong.” For some people, they’re a helpful bridge.
But for deep healing, awareness matters:
🤔 Am I drinking this out of choice, or out of habit?
🤔 Am I present, or repeating an old pattern?
🤔 What need is this behaviour meeting for me?
True freedom comes when the inner attachment loosens—not just when the substance disappears.
Awareness loosens the grip. Compassion completes the healing.
If this reflection resonates, feel free to share it with someone who may need a gentle reminder today.
Sometimes awareness shared is healing multiplied 🤍






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