For many who grew up with inconsistent or unhealthy attachments, receiving doesn’t come easily. 🙅🏻‍♂️🙅🏻‍♀️ We learn to over-give instead — to over-do, over-extend, over-prove — because somewhere along the way, care felt conditional. Like we had to earn being seen, held, or safe. 🥇 As a child, I believed that giving more than enough was the only way to matter. If I offered something extra… maybe then I’d be noticed. Maybe then I’d be held. And here I am now, on a Qantas f